tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post4016260202711831694..comments2024-02-24T10:22:46.756+01:00Comments on Julia Speaks: Fashion: Perfection Is Just A ConceptJuliahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16155663667723808286noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-48906392978800161782016-08-01T00:26:34.750+02:002016-08-01T00:26:34.750+02:00Thanks Elizabeth! You got through a really tough p...Thanks Elizabeth! You got through a really tough phase I see, thanks for sharing this experience <3 It shows that our mind can bring us to think things that are far from reality! That is very hard to control, but we can improve a little every day, step by step. Let's focus on the good! :D xxJuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16155663667723808286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-56193658413537687602016-08-01T00:20:33.070+02:002016-08-01T00:20:33.070+02:00Thank you so much Ela <3 I am just like you, if...Thank you so much Ela <3 I am just like you, if I think something isn't going the way I want it to, I just end up eventually. We should be brave and keep going, but also be happy about how we do, without putting ourselves down! xxJuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16155663667723808286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-63719067851368920712016-08-01T00:16:18.152+02:002016-08-01T00:16:18.152+02:00We should all chill a bit more, trust me! The whol...We should all chill a bit more, trust me! The whole experience would be a lot more enjoyable :D Thanks so much Cate xxJuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16155663667723808286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-86832292750155493142016-08-01T00:09:53.145+02:002016-08-01T00:09:53.145+02:00Thanks Victoria! Outfit photos are the worst :( xx...Thanks Victoria! Outfit photos are the worst :( xxJuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16155663667723808286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-60636397843385023862016-07-28T21:07:32.079+02:002016-07-28T21:07:32.079+02:00This was so lovely to read, Julia, I absolutely lo...This was so lovely to read, Julia, I absolutely love your photos and outfit! I suffered with Body Dysmorphia when I was a teenager and thought I looked awful, like an alien, I just didn't look 'right', the way everyone else did or aspired to be. I wanted to change so many parts of my face and researched nose surgery and skin lightening procedures... you name it! It was so upsetting and I would just hide in the toilets at school and cry and not attend many days, it felt horrendous. There are still periods of my life where I think 'if it's not perfect, it's completely terrible and wrong'. I try to work past it and know that if I aim for 'perfection', I am missing everything good about what's there already - plus, what actually is 'perfection'? I try to remember how much of an illusion it actually is :D caramel and popcorn ice cream sounds AMAZING! xx<br /><br />elizabeth ♡ <a href="http://www.icecreamandclara.co.uk/" rel="nofollow">”Ice Cream” whispers Clara</a>elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09041768933447675846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-17114874090897835232016-07-25T16:46:39.180+02:002016-07-25T16:46:39.180+02:00First of all, these photos are so beautiful and yo...First of all, these photos are so beautiful and you look gorgeous, I don't know why you didn't like that at the first place.<br />Everyone has their own definition of perfectionism and as far as I can remember, when I do something, I wanted it to be just right and like how I imagined to be and if they don't turn out the way imagine, then I just stop doing it. It is actually not a good thing because we push ourselves so hard that, even something good looks like it is not good. <br />In order to pick one or two photos for the blog, I end up taking so many photos, I remember one time I took over 50+ to choose one. We want people to see the best of us and in order to achieve that we pressure ourselves.<br />We should how to chill out and be happy with the things we do :) x<br /><br /><a href="http://www.elabellaworld.com" rel="nofollow">Ela BellaWorld</a>ElaBellaWorldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01293527512125624308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-75227883714445688272016-07-25T12:03:36.267+02:002016-07-25T12:03:36.267+02:00we are the worst judges of ourselves! we could be ...we are the worst judges of ourselves! we could be really mean...at least i'm a perfectionist when it comes to pictures and sometimes i should just chill and let it go! easier saying it than doing it though!<br />you look great in the pic at the louvre dear<3<br /><br />xx from italy<br /><b><a href="%E2%80%9Cwww.kateidoscope.com%22" rel="nofollow">Cate ღ kate/idoscope.com</a></b>Cate // 35mminstyle.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01222349827223123466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-80107698821891916332016-07-24T22:13:28.152+02:002016-07-24T22:13:28.152+02:00Aww these are lovely photos though! But I know exa...Aww these are lovely photos though! But I know exactly what you mean about striving for perfection - I always feel like this with my photos - especially the outfit ones xx<br /><br />vvnightingale.com vvnightingalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10171532883249646611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-49560955364217850932016-07-24T21:22:13.035+02:002016-07-24T21:22:13.035+02:00I'm sure most bloggers feel the same way as we...I'm sure most bloggers feel the same way as we do actually, that's why I wanted to speak about about it! Thank you Sarah xxJuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16155663667723808286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-52626846326481270392016-07-24T21:21:07.362+02:002016-07-24T21:21:07.362+02:00Thanks! I'm going to check out your blog first...Thanks! I'm going to check out your blog first ;) xxJuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16155663667723808286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-56607859474439118112016-07-24T21:20:22.338+02:002016-07-24T21:20:22.338+02:00Thank you Natalie, I'm glad we feel the same w...Thank you Natalie, I'm glad we feel the same way! xxJuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16155663667723808286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-66440714132450062122016-07-24T21:19:38.296+02:002016-07-24T21:19:38.296+02:00Thanks Jasmine! Well, I can tell you your blog pos...Thanks Jasmine! Well, I can tell you your blog posts are amazing, you shouldn't worry about them! ;) xxJuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16155663667723808286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-91928074877114037062016-07-24T21:18:52.991+02:002016-07-24T21:18:52.991+02:00Blog photos are the worst, definitely! They're...Blog photos are the worst, definitely! They're so hard to get right. But most of the time, even if they're not perfect, they'll work anyways! We have to relax and be proud of what we do :) xxJuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16155663667723808286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-23355708245129743622016-07-24T21:16:56.487+02:002016-07-24T21:16:56.487+02:00That's it, we should reach the point where wha...That's it, we should reach the point where what we do is good enough for us, and makes us proud. Reaching an unattainable and very abstract perfection wouldn't do us any good! Thank you so much Bash <3 xx Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16155663667723808286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-63639587235795118202016-07-24T21:15:35.362+02:002016-07-24T21:15:35.362+02:00Thanks Cara! xxThanks Cara! xxJuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16155663667723808286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-89996385028117118042016-07-24T21:14:35.935+02:002016-07-24T21:14:35.935+02:00Being a perfectionist is hard! They key is to unde...Being a perfectionist is hard! They key is to understand that the pressure we put on ourselves isn't always healthy. When it pushes us too far, it's time to stop everything we're going and think about it! Thanks lovely Mona <3 xxJuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16155663667723808286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-52121270704774913802016-07-24T20:55:00.888+02:002016-07-24T20:55:00.888+02:00This is something that I do all the time and I nev...This is something that I do all the time and I never want to take any photos of myself to later find that I don't look as bad as I thought. I think that you look very nice in these photos and I love the outfit! <br /><br />Sarah | <a href="http://www.whatsarahwrites.com/" rel="nofollow">What Sarah Writes</a>Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09214781872024935354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-90305276253167634532016-07-24T14:48:30.867+02:002016-07-24T14:48:30.867+02:00You look so cute and cosy in those looks and the p...You look so cute and cosy in those looks and the place looks beautiful! <br /><br />would you like to follow each other on google friend connect and google plus? If you follow me,<br />I will follow you back after it. ^^<br />www.tomntins.com<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-17913471776893566702016-07-24T12:44:15.605+02:002016-07-24T12:44:15.605+02:00Well said, we are our own worst critics sometimes...Well said, we are our own worst critics sometimes! Like you said, perfection should push us not bring us down- couldn't agree with you more! Great post, lovely and you look so pretty in that dress! :)<br />♥NY<br /><a href="http://www.yourstrulyny.com" rel="nofollow">Yours Truly, NY</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/yourstrulyny" rel="nofollow">INSTAGRAM</a><br /><br />Yours Truly, NYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13661332180543891682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-89449903252456217322016-07-23T12:14:18.114+02:002016-07-23T12:14:18.114+02:00I feel like I'm a natural perfectionist so for...I feel like I'm a natural perfectionist so for me putting out blog posts is a big deal because I'm sharing something that isn't always going to be 'perfect'. I definitely think sometimes it's just in our heads because your photos look great to me!<br /><br />Jasmine xx<br /><br /><a href="http://www.jasminetalksbeauty.com/" rel="nofollow"><i> Jasmine Talks Beauty </i> </a> | <a href="http://www.jasminetalksbeauty.com/2016/06/40k-followers-giveaway-win-sephora-usa.html" rel="nofollow"><i> US & Sephora Giveaway</i> </a> Jasmine Stewarthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13847636974192197959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-55713589635781897322016-07-22T15:21:13.161+02:002016-07-22T15:21:13.161+02:00I am a big perfectionist, something that never aff...I am a big perfectionist, something that never affected my life that much until I started blogging. Everything else seemed to be under control, but the pictures? They are nerve wrecking, and I don't even take outfit photos, just makeup. But as you said, it should motivate us, not bring us down, and that is what I keep telling myself.<br />The pictures, by the way, are amazing!<br /><br /><a href="http://lindalibraloca.com/" rel="nofollow">Linda, Libra, Loca: Beauty, Baby and Backpacking</a>Doctor Annehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13757983461575661675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-17737754963904757112016-07-22T05:36:29.629+02:002016-07-22T05:36:29.629+02:00Perfection is a concept many don't realise is ...Perfection is a concept many don't realise is just a concept, myself included. I just strive for a perfection I know I will never attain. But I also know that what I do, is good. Good enough for me. You look beautiful, Julia. Love the dress! <3<br /><br />xx Bash | go say <a href="http://www.heybash.com/" rel="nofollow">H E Y B A S H</a>Bash Harryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16956194903182205839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-64270363980669791242016-07-21T10:43:48.491+02:002016-07-21T10:43:48.491+02:00you are so stunning and this post is so true, no o...you are so stunning and this post is so true, no one is perfect and imperfections are what makes someone beautiful anyway! <3<br />www.britishmermaid.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03033212624257833345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6316033986229535307.post-89971622917188415252016-07-20T20:58:11.894+02:002016-07-20T20:58:11.894+02:00Great post! Resonated with me. I'm a perfectio...Great post! Resonated with me. I'm a perfectionist and always want everything to be just right. You know, like just "perfect", and I go to such heights to achieve it, I nearly destroy myself. So I am definitely someone who needs to take a step back and reassess. Thanks for the reminder.<br />And might I just say: Lovely photos!! :D You look so beautiful and the setting is wonderful.<br />Hope you're having a great week.<br />Much love,<br />MonaCurls n Cakeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09304523865399129191noreply@blogger.com